Sunday, July 20, 2008

Goals & Personal Happiness

Did you know that goals and your personal happiness can be linked? You may not know this because it because of the success of making it to your goals that you will find personal happiness. You will also find that there are many other things that you can build happiness with, but you will find that good health, spiritual comfort, money, power, and beauty are all because of goal setting. They do make us happy, however, you will get all and more when you learn how to reach for your personal goals and find a way to your personal happiness.

Right now you must have at least two goals; one short term and one long term goal. You will want to think about how you feel when you do end up reaching these goals. You will want to make sure that you take your time to explain your feelings, because in the end you need to find your happiness. Do you think that your current goals will find your happiness? Do you really think that you can work on being a better person by changing your goals? It is very important that you learn how to be a happier person, but it is more important to seek out the goals that you truly believe will make you happy.

Keep in mind that true happiness and your personal success doesn't just happen by chance. You will also find that luck has nothing to do with it either. The thing is that you need to figure out what it is that you need to be happy and then you will need to work hard to achieve those goals. You will also need to face the facts that cheating and money will not buy you happiness. It can buy you success, but there is a factor of integrity that makes you feel good about reaching a goal. If you do not have integrity, then you might as well just give up on your personal happiness.

Also, you can't compare the way you feel to the way others feel. You will not be able to find the same happiness that others find in specific goals, because it has to truly be in the heart. Happiness is actually a condition and it's completely in your head. You will need to set some goals along with objectives so that you can reach out for bigger and better things. The fact that you try your hardest for something will also make you feel very happy in the end. Also, keep in mind that this is just you. You can't make happiness for anyone else, specially your family. Your mate may become happy because you are happy, but their true happiness lies in your smile or confidence. Keep in mind that happiness is only good for one person; however, you can strive with your mate and possible reach happiness together.

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2 comments:

Gottitravel said...

Great write-up. Just makes you realize that no one else can make you happy. You have to make yourself happy and that starts with setting goals.

Thanks for sharing!

-Teresa
gottitravel.com

Itiel said...

So true. Happiness comes from within, no one can make you happy. Everyone deserves to experience happiness.

Thank you for sharing.

Itiel